Writing well wishes for a newlywed couple can feel like a daunting task. How do you sum up the joy and excitement you feel for their new adventure in a few simple phrases? If you’ve got a case of writer’s block, we have tips to get you started along with etiquette to help you avoid any faux pas. Follow our guide to what to write in a wedding congratulations ecards and discover example wishes to make your own.
Wedding Card Writing Tips
Mention both names
When writing wedding wishes, the most important thing to remember is to make out a wedding ecard for both members of the couple.
If you know the bride, don’t make the mistake of addressing something very personal to just her. Now that she is married, the contents of the card should be relevant to both of the newlyweds.
Make sure it’s not generic
Always include a note beyond what is pre-written on the inside.
Never just sign your name under a Hallmark message. If you’re short on words, say that in your writing. Try: ‘I found this card, and these words were exactly how I felt.’ That gives added emphasis to the card itself.
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Be careful with humour
Sarcasm on paper can be hard to read without a smiley face or exclamation point. Avoid topics that could be sensitive to the couple, such as money or the length of the relationship. And though it should go without saying, no divorce jokes.
Get personal
The better you know them, the more personal the card can be. Go with a memory that involves the couple. Sign-offs can be full of love; Our favourites include: “XOXO,” “Elated for you,” “Over the moon for you,” and “Madly in love with you two.”
Wedding Card Etiquette
Bring your card to the ceremony
You should never show up to someone’s home without a token of appreciation for being hosted, and the same goes for weddings.
It’s a nice gesture that shows gratitude for being invited. This remains true even if you’ve already sent a gift to the couple’s home or contributed to a honeymoon fund.
You should write in the card: ‘We hope you enjoy the gift we sent to your home’”. That way, you’re tactfully acknowledging that a gift accompanied your wedding digital card.
Hand it to the right person
If, upon arrival at the ceremony, you do not see a gift station or card box, seek out the wedding planner or venue manager.
They’ll ferry your card to the bridal suite or another designated place for safekeeping.
No event professional on hand? Give your card to one of the fathers of the couple, or the best man. The reason has nothing to do with gender.
It’s about what they would be wearing. They would likely have a suit with pockets, whereas the mothers or maid of honour likely have a tiny evening purse or no pockets at all.
Consider how you address it
Unsure of how the couple will be handling last names?
There’s an easy workaround: Address the envelope with “To the newlyweds,” “To the Mr. and Mrs.,” “To the Mr. and Mr.,” or “To the Mrs. and Mrs.”
Go with a check, not cash
Planning on including a monetary gift with your card?
If cash gets misplaced, that’s it. But if you give a check, you can track it. If you see, two months after the wedding, that the check has not been cashed, you can make sure the couple received it.
Send one even if you can’t attend
If you’re invited to the wedding but unable to attend, feel free to send a wedding virtual card anytime between when you receive your invitation and a few weeks after the big day. There’s no real time limit on telling a couple how happy you are for them.
Wedding Card Examples
Unsure of what to say when it comes to specific relationships? Here are some specific guidelines on what to write in a wedding card.
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